I want to preface this post... by acknowledging that I grew up leaning these things from so many different places; my family, pop culture, books, movies,  the media and plenty of people I have come into contact with throughout the duration of my life. These are concepts much larger than a storyline in a movie or an immature view on relationships. They are well established narratives, embedded in the fabric of our society, rooted deep in the history that took place long before any of us were brought into this world. That is perhaps what makes shifting our own perspectives around them so uncomfortable and challenging. And I am not immune to that journey, I have evolved so much in my thoughts about being a woman and how larger ideologies than myself have shaped my experiences. But after a series of many epiphanies, I realized that the status quo in heterosexual relationships just didn't do justice for me anymore and so I started to question them. Obviously I am only one person with my own views and experiences, so I want to preface this by reminding anyone reading that the point of sharing my thoughts is to start a conversation. I am by no means the expert on really anything. But I do have the capacity to be vulnerable in sharing what I learn about myself and the world around me. I hope you do to. Enjoy. 

"Playing hard to get..." I will admit, this is still a tough pill for me to swallow. This was always considered the oldest rule in the book as advice for women in heterosexual relationships. The concept is simple, don't show your full fledged interest until there's a commitment, and even then, use the lack of emotion as a way to maintain a partner's interest in you. Some might argue the idea is super archaic, some might argue it's still well and alive. The problem I find is that essentially it's encouraging us to limit our ability to express ourselves in relationships and seek out something we don't believe we have or are worthy of having by being ourselves. This doesn't mean that I think people should share every feeling in the beginning of a relationship, true intimacy doesn't seem to build  overnight. But it means that what we present or don't present about ourselves with someone new should be determined by our own personal boundaries, not as a manipulation tool. 

"Be with someone who loves you more than them..." I can't tell you how many people have said this to me throughout my entire life. And to be quite honest, it's made sense given the power difference we often find in committed heterosexual relationships. If men generally have more power, than women are responsible for finding ways of garnering it back. A lot of these ideas stem from women being encouraged to get what they want in a more passive way, rather than just asking for what they want directly. So it creates an environment where we leverage our emotional connections with partners, in an attempt to create more power for ourselves. I think it also means we as women end up being more encouraged to be in relationships where we overlook or minimize our own desire for connection, in exchange for security. And it doesn't seem to serve the other partner very well either; would you want to be that other person? 

"A guy will only go as far as you let him..." I take a deep breath with this one, because for a significant part of my life I believed this 100%. I remember from a very young age having this idea that women were responsible for protecting their innocence by controlling their sexuality. I remembered knowing there were many ways women could cause problems for themselves by either trusting the wrong man, wearing provocative clothing, losing their virginity too soon, or having more than one sexual partner. The list could go on forever and ever. What was always missing though, was the partner's responsibility. What about the men in these relationships? This is the problem I have with this statement, because it's based on this false expectation that women control everything, despite the fact that we are only 50 percent of any situation with another person. It also assumes that men don't have self control, and it's acceptable for them to take advantage of any situation they can. This is not only ludicrous to me, but also an embarrassing stereotype for men. I hope my future children understand fully that they have an equal say in what types of relationships they enter into and each and every sexual exchange. I also want to point out that the majority of non-consensual sexual acts are perpetrated by men, meaning that clearly this is not just an unhelpful way of thinking, but it's also untrue. I think a better version of this statement is, I will only go as far as I am comfortable with. And that is how I have chosen to navigate my most recent relationships. 

"Boys will be boys..." Such a classic line. So do we just assume boys are naturally terrible? That they would force someone into a situation that's uncomfortable, intrusive, embarrassing and potentially harmful because that's just the way it is? That they might cheat or hurt their partner because they can't help themselves? I don't know about you, but I think both boys and men are better than this. I believe all people are capable of being better than this. 

What most of these concepts allude to it the idea that women aren't capable or worthy of taking more active approaches to dating and relationships. What I think is even worse, however, is that they seem to send a message that rather than being forthright about our feelings and intentions, we should address them with manipulation. Asking for what we want, without making it seem that way. For example, playing hard to get is essentially pretending to not be interested, because we are. Or choosing to be with someone who loves us more so we have a stronger influence over them. It's quite a disempowering view of relationships when you think about it, based on games rather than self-respect. Obviously there are many relationships that aren't based on these outdated ideologies, but in addition to choosing more empowering roles within a relationship, I think it's also important to understand the context of why these things are harmful to us and everyone. Change does not come easy, it's uncomfortable and takes a long time to become the norm. There is likely someone reading this right now who thinks there is absolutely nothing wrong with any of these ideas and that is fine too. My guess is that we all fall somewhere unique on the spectrum and in my humble opinion, that's the perfect place to be. 

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A little white dress... has always been my preference over the famed LBD. Why I love wearing white has nothing to do with being innocent or getting married, it just inspires all these beautiful memories of warm, dreamy weather and something fresh. No matter the season or year in fashion, I fully believe the aesthetic wearing white creates is forever new and the possibilities are endless. Does anyone else feel that way? I suppose that's what most people feel about black perhaps. For me it's all year round variations of white, but of course with the mindset of a native Chicagoan I always associate those first few days sans snow slush in March as fair game to pull out those white summer dresses. After living in Los Angeles for 7 years now I am not so desperate to wear a summer dress just because the high for the day is north of 50 degrees, but for anyone struggling in the snow right now, remember this little slice of happiness called Spring Break! Obviously the term Spring Break does not hold quite the same meaning it did say back in my college days, but it does still hold the same excitement. Going somewhere warm while the rest of the country is still struggling to fully melt is a luxury we can all use desperately. So while I am not waiting in any lines for a foam party (yes, I have been to one and yes, I regret it 100%), I am waiting on my rosé sangria at the Cabana Cafe at the Beverly Hills Hotel. 

Fortunately I have gotten a headstart on adding to my little white dress collection with these two pretty little numbers, a classic babydoll and a fun off the shoulder, both from pretty little thing, of course. Now all I need is a some sunshine and a Spring Break to roll around! More awesome Spring Break options here. Enjoy!


*This post is a collaboration between Pretty Little Thing and Gisele Chic. 


Wedding planning is in full swing...my fiancé and I have knocked out most of the major items on our to do list for the big day; the venue, the food, the florals, the dress, the decor, the honeymoon and now, the save the dates! I'll admit, we got a little lazy around the holidays but I am happy to report we are back on track and finally have our save the dates ready to get mailed out to all our closest family and friends! I am not sure what the official timeline is supposed to be for a save the date, but I think 7 months out sounds good enough for me. So I am happy to share how the process got started and executed so beautifully because it thankfully was a really easy and fun experience, especially for someone old fashioned like myself, who cherishes pretty paper. Anyone else with me on this? As much as I love using Paperless Post, I pray my future children don't send their's via email! Enjoy!

From the beginning, I knew I wanted something very personalized, with either a monogram or motif that represented Arthur and I in some special way. So I started browsing through all the options Basic Invite had for personal monograms to find something that felt right. I loved a lot of them, specifically the floral heart design because of the beautiful blue and white summer inspired design and also the perfectly titled royal monogram which featured an elegant wedding crest. Browsing through all the options for wedding invitation monograms gave me the idea to utilize a monogram for not just the invitation but also for the save the date, and perhaps many other future paper to come! I also really loved one specific photo from our engagement shoot that just inspired all kinds of summer romance vibes. So I started to look through all the save the date options that work with photo uploads and found lots of great postcard style save the dates

Ultimately, I decided to have a custom wedding crest created with the photo I loved so much. Of course the colors have remained blue and white, so once we had a design ready to print, Basic Invite turned my JPEG dreams into the most beautiful paper! The print options were exceptional, with every color option you could imagine, making my watercolor JPEG come to life in the most perfect shade of summer blue. When I received the custom sample we ordered, I literally gasped at how stunning it looked on the double thick matte paper we selected. We didn't use foil for our save the date card but I loved how pretty it looked on the dark monogram with gold foil and would highly recommend using it to add a touch of glamour. 

Despite the 40 envelope color options that were available to us, we decided to go with simple white envelopes. And even though Basic Invite offers a complimentary service to collect guest addresses and print them, I decided to personalize them just a tad more by addressing them by hand. At one point I had considered actually writing out my invitations but thank goodness I talked myself off that ledge given my terrible left handed chicken scratch I can barely make out myself! I also wanted white envelopes to balance out the wax seal I had so much fun using. We had a custom stamp made that replicated our wedding monogram and I am planning to use it for our invitations as well, and perhaps my future snail mail to loved ones. Who knows, friends of mine might just get invited to a boarding school in England to learn magic and drink champagne in a British accent that coincidently has the same crest as ours, just saying

Overall, I can honestly say this process wasn't stressful and I am extremely happy with how our lovely save the dates came out. Thank you Basic Invite for making the process so simple and helping me execute my creativity! 

And that's a wax!


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What's more romantic than... breakfast in bed? I've always tried my best to have one weekend morning start with some extra time to lounge in bed before starting my day. This is hard to do given that I have the best shot at working out on weekend  mornings, have brunch plans or simply have too many items on my to-do list to spend a couple hours in bed. But I have always done my best to make time for some leisurely coffee sipping, Pinterest pinning and magazine browsing whenever possible. It's a luxury, but perhaps the most enjoyable and least expensive of them all. So when thinking of ways to celebrate one of my favorite holidays with my special someone, an extended period in our delicious bed seemed like the perfect plan. Of course this is not an exact representation of what we will actually being doing on Valentine's Day, but I'll let it serve as a some dreamy inspiration, or just a good excuse to eat croissants in bed and drink pink champagne before noon. 

To start with the setup, having a tray that stands up is ideal! I linked mine at the end of this post, along with everything else. I highly recommend getting a standing bed tray for anyone who likes to work or eat in bed. I also regularly use it for our beach picnics, perfect for keeping sand out of your food. For the treats, I chose mostly brunch related items, like pastries, coffee con panna (espresso with whip cream) and fruit. But because I value brie and brut rosé so much I just couldn't resist including them in this celebration (and all others to be quite honest)Of course a beautiful bouquet of pink flowers naturally fit the tone for Valentine's Day and of course I hand selected them and arranged them by myself, a combination of pretty pink spray roses and pink carnations. Whole Foods did a great job wrapping the spray roses in paper, but I knew I'd be rearranging them later so I kept the pretty straw bow intact and put the larger mix back into it's original wrapping. I took a small bunch for my beveled old fashioned glass, which I honestly am starting to prefer as a weekly arrangement over a large bouquet because of how chic the combo looks on top of my desk and coffee table! Then I added a nice pink tapered candle in the same candle holders I used for my New Year's Eve table and let it burn for a while ahead of time so the wax looked extra romantic. I added a heart shaped cake in the mix which I made, hence it came from a box, that read Let's go back to bed in an unfortunately very close shade of pink to the pink frosting. The cake wasn't a total fail but if you have any intention of attempting this please try a thinner icing for the letters, with a stronger color contrast from the frosting! See all my links at the end of my post. Enjoy! 

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Will you brie my Valentine...? Of course some nice brie, a bottle of brut rosé, truffle chocolates and a handwritten card will forever be the key to my heart. But since I happen to love Valentine's Day, and Galentine's Day perhaps even more, it's my favorite theme to make gift guides for and create parties around. I know everyone likes to throw away this holiday as something silly made up by card companies, but I prefer to just take what I like and make it all about that. So for me an expensive pre-fixe menu at a restaurant, a half the effort cheesy card or ridiculously overpriced gift is not what I am looking for. Instead, I just want to spend quality time with the people I love, decorate in one of my favorite colors and send my annual valentines to all the people I don't usually see on a day to day basis, as a small reminder of my love. I make gift guides based on things I would actually want- Arthur take note- and you know how I love to create something pretty for basically any occasion. Most years my significant other and I have not exchanged non-food related gifts but that's not to say I wouldn't want something special! Again, I think the key is to really sift out what we like about any tradition, holiday, "societal norm" and make it our own, for our own good reasons! So if you like getting chocolates and flowers, ASK FOR THEM. If you want a fancy gift or romantic dinner, DO IT. If you want just some quality time, MAKE IT HAPPEN. If you aren't dating anyone, go out with your friends! If you want to throw an "I Hate Valentine's Day Party", DO IT and while you're pouting, buy something pretty from my little guide, OR DON'T. Happy Valentine's Day everyone!

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When done right... leopard exudes timeless style and I consider it quite glamorous. However, I have always gone back and forth between whether or not leopard has become tacky or remains a perfect example of forever fashion. And I think the fashion industry has also wavered a bit over the years, as many trends do, particularly when people overdo it and we all need a short break. But this one always seems to come back into my closet fairly quickly, almost every other fall season. Like many, my love of leopard started very early on in my fashion history. Fashion history is a thing right? Like the history of my fashion choices since birth? If not, then I'd like credit for coining the term "fashion history." My strongest memories always go back to the beloved Fran Drescher character from The Nanny, a show I grew up on and can honestly attribute a large amount of my fashion confidence or just confidence in general to. Of course Fran wore leopard frivolously and it was representative of her strong personality, something I always admired about her. I too loved to wear the bold print growing up. I had leopard hats, purses, skirts, jackets. My favorite was a matching black skirt and jacket with faux fur leopard edges. It was adorable. But despite the many ways it has shown up in global fashion markets, I personally will always love a fur leopard coat. The style of prints I'm drawn to tend to change here and there, but I will always consider it to be really chic. Because it's so bold, I usually wear it over a cream sweater or white shirt, jeans and simple flats during the day, maybe nude pumps at night. Either way, I have linked a bunch of styles below at the end of this post, and how I wore it right here. Enjoy!

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The term self-care... came up A LOT in my graduate program. It was constantly thrown into every lecture, referenced in every assigned reading, mentioned among other students when they talked about their weekend plans and stress getting papers done. I would hear it talked about so frequently but I don't think I ever gave the term real thought; I sort of assumed self-care meant the freedom to get a manicure, watch housewives marathons and add a little mac and cheese to my to-go box at Whole Foods, without feeling bad about it. Self-care was basically a more personal version of YOLO. My professors put so much emphasis on mastering this practice as burgeoning social workers, however, never discussed the concept in real detail. What exactly did self-care mean and how the hell are we supposed to do it? Of course we learned pretty quickly why self-care was important and the strong impact it was supposed to have on our minds, bodies and souls in doing this hard work. But there was never any solid explanation that I can recall about what that looked like in practice. 

And now, after working in this field for about 5 years, I kinda get that. It’s not a concept that can easily be taught, measured or applied equally to everyones lives. As I reflect back, I think my early understanding of it often felt like a bandaid. A somewhat superficial act of joy in response to adversity, with great intent, but not an authentic way to feel better. Getting my nails done, going to the dentist, saying yes to an extra drink; these things didn’t really do much for me because it was really a check off the list or an in the moment thing that caused more harm the next day. I remember very clearly being in my first job out of graduate school and being extremely unfulfilled, overworked and really burdened by the whole experience, to put it lightly. So my way of dealing was to try and equate the dismay of my day job with what I thought was self-care; spending extra time out with friends, buying expensive shoes, indulging in everything without any real consideration of the consequences because it felt like a worthy opponent to my hardships. 

I quickly realized this was not only not self-care, but that even engaging in real self-care wouldn’t have solved the problem I was in. I had been living a life that at it’s core was failing to meet my basic needs. I had absolutely no stability or balance. Self-care can't fix that. Self-care is a restorative practice, therefore there needs to be something to restore.  It’s what keeps us in an essential harmony with the reality of daily life. I realized that in order to do this I not only needed to engage in real self-care, but also not rely on it. I needed to be able to function reliably at baseline first, then add in self-care to remain balanced. This meant that getting a better apartment, more followers on Instagram or a boyfriend, was not going to cut it. The main source of my unhappiness was coming from my job and so if that didn’t change, nothing else would. So I made the leap of faith and after about six months I was able to find that essential harmony I needed so desperately. It took a while and wasn't an easy process but eventually I was clearer, stronger, safer. It wasn’t until then that I was able to learn what self-care wasn't, starting my journey to discovering what self-care was. 

At its core, self-care is the practice of restoring balance. Meeting your basic needs is a necessary basis for any self-care practice and those needs are not just basic. Having food, shelter and water is one thing, but what self-care provides is a step closer to peacefulness, wholeness and fulfillment. I would say I don't feel 100% this way, 100% of the time, but I will say that the more I practice balance, the easier it is to maintain it. Just like anything, practice makes better. So what is considered an act of self-care? I could create lists of activities that would fall under the umbrella of self-care, but the key for me is to ask a few questions, "How will this time spent meet a need the day has brought? Will doing this bring me balance today or will it exacerbate my pain?" 

Finding a practice that is healing, is not necessarily always enjoyable. And vice versa. I have often confused having fun as always being helpful. Sometimes it is, sometimes not so much. For example, a mini shopping spree might have made me feel great after a stressful day at my internship, but didn't always make the next day less stressful. Adding extra salty food to my plate was an indulgence I might have felt I "deserved" after submitting a big paper, but it didn't reenergize me or release the stress I accumulated in getting the work done on a strict timeline. I remember one semester when I finished my last assignment, I felt this insane urge to go for a run. I hadn't been consistently exercising at the time, but I just felt this intense desire to move my body, particularly my legs and release whatever had been building up for so long. Now this was certainly a one off, typically I would see a movie by myself or crave a margarita after being done with finals, but I think it really spoke to our need day after day to release ourselves from the stressors of daily life. Exhibit A being the sheer concept of "happy hour," which tends to just leave us dehydrated and tired by 7pm. This is not to say that enjoying a nice meal, eating a slice of cake or sipping a few pretty cocktails is wrong, but it just comes down to consciousness. If we can be a bit more conscious, albeit honest with ourselves about what's truly helpful, then we are more capable of choosing something healing over hurtful.

Often times self-care means scheduling time with friends, time for my blog, or just plain time with myself. The time with myself, I have learned, is often the most restorative. And this time with myself can look a lot of different ways. Sometimes that means laying down for ten minutes and watching stories on Instagram, other times consuming media will worsen my mood. Considering how much time I spend online, I often consider good self-care to not involve any devices, but that's just something I have learned from my own experience. Remember this is a practice, not a default response. So what's helpful today might not be tomorrow. Being conscious of the energy we are carrying can weed out a lot of ideas. Like I mentioned before, a practice that is healing, is not necessarily enjoyable. Sometimes a tough day might require more than a just walk outside. Sometimes addressing our issues head on, talking to someone about them, or contemplating making a change is neccessary. It's essentially about being more in tune with ourselves so that we can adequately restore balance as needed. It's a daily practice that sometimes I'm pretty good at, other times not so much.

But the good news is this; we know ourselves best. We might not always be 100% in sync all the time, but we will always have that opportunity to find ourselves again. Again and again and again and again. That's essentially what this practice of self-care is, right? Well again, only you could know. 

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Let me start off... by making it really clear that I only spent a few days in Havana, therefore I am by no means an expert about where to go or what to do! But I will share with you a few of my favorite highlights from the trip that I'd recommend so consider this basically a mini guide to Havana, or simply a recap of what I loved! But before I get into that I will share a few things to keep in mind before you apply for a visa; which leads me to my first thing, you need a visa! After obtaining that, you will need to plan your trip according to the type of visa you obtain, meaning there are certain requirements set by the Cuban government for American travel. Ours included attending a certain amount of educational activities in order to further our understanding of the Cuban culture. Most of these activities are things you would likely want to do anyway when visiting, so it's an easy thing to embrace! Another important thing to keep in mind is the fact that credit cards are very unlikely to work in Cuba, so it's important to bring cash before going so you can exchange it for the Cuban peso. There were mentions that some debit cards might work but I really wouldn't risk it! I would also make sure you know what the hotel you are staying at accepts for payment, so you are prepared. Fortunately, Cuba is extremely affordable as compared to the United States, so your money will go a very long way. Next is the internet. Havana is the major city in Cuba and getting wifi was still extremely difficult during our stay. Out hotel had wifi, however, it was very hard to connect to and I can't honestly remember any other locations outside of our hotel that offered wifi to guests. I happened to love this opportunity to disconnect, as I would expect most American travelers would, however, if you are planning to get work done while there I would suggest you make accommodations so that you can be free of internet for long periods of time. I also tried to get cellular service during my trip but neither my carrier or my fiancé's had available plans to do so. They did however inform me of how much it would cost per minute to make a call or send a text off airplane mode and it wasn't cheap so I would really plan ahead to be somewhat unreachable during your time there. Last but not least, is that despite Havana being in the Caribbean, Americans are not welcome at the beach and therefore this trip didn't involve any lounging or time spent on the ocean as one might expect when traveling here. I could be wrong about this or perhaps there are specific beaches outside the city where Americans are welcome but it was a big surprise to me when our guide pointed this out! Aside from that I felt extremely safe throughout the entire trip and really enjoyed my time getting to experience the Cuban culture. I hope this guide inspires and is helpful, enjoy!

We stayed at the Iberostar Parque Central which was a great experience. In terms of customer service, cleanliness and amenities it had everything we needed. There was a nice bar and restaurant with live music and good food options, a cashier to exchange money at and the hotel was in a good location where I felt safe and close to everything. The wifi was very weak but this just seems to be a difficult amenity to come by in Cuba, a country that just recently got 3G internet. Aesthetically, I wasn't really blown away by the architecture or decor but it was an easy and comfortable stay. There were a few boutique hotels I explored but really can't speak to beyond my appreciation of the beautiful interiors. Some of them were Hotel Florida, Hotel Raquel, Mercure Sevilla Havane, Hotel Inglaterra and Hotel Ambos Mundos. Again, these were just beautiful places I explored so I would do a little research before booking! We also went to the famous Hotel Nacional de Cuba, which is full of Cuban history and prestige, a great place to expand your understating of the culture and sip a fabulously sweet mojito. 

Part of the requirement in obtaining a visa to visit Cuba as an American is participation in activities that further your knowledge of the Cuban culture. This was an easy one for me given that I love to learn about any new place I visit, and our guide did not disappoint! He took us to all our meals, showed us the city, and most intriguing for me, answered so many of our questions in a really thoughtful and honest way. I appreciated his insight as not just a guide but as a citizen of Cuba with his own genuine experiences to share. I loved everything we did and would recommend them all! Starting with the walking tour of the city with our guide who put the beautiful architecture and historical landmarks into context. Then riding through the city in a classic convertible, which lasts about an hour and is a great way to see everything in style! We also had a great time exploring the Hotel National de Cuba, which is a historical landmark and a beautiful place to spend an afternoon learning more about Cuba. Last but certainly not least, we went to the Tropicana, which was incredibly entertaining and a great way to spend an evening in Havana! The dancers were excellent and the energy was beyond contagious. It was a beautiful way to spend our last evening. We didn't get to visit a rum museum or factory but that would have been really cool too and something I would have liked to do if we had more time! And if you are into cigars I would recommend grabbing one, fun fact, you can bring about 20 back to the United States. And if you don't smoke but want to embrace the cigar theme like I did with my cigar box purse, check out my post about it here

My favorite meal in Havana happened to be at the most beautiful restaurant. Surprise, surprise! La Guardita was at the top of my list for photo opportunities after having done my usual pre-travel research. It's in this absolutely beautiful building whose majority of charm stems from how worn down it is. The building used to be a family's mansion, which is just what you'd imagine when you walk up and see the second floor staircase with a gorgeous chandelier and peeling paint on the walls. When I went to shoot pictures it was daytime and I didn't think to explore the second floor because the first floor was so cool, with a stone colored staircase, also rugged but in a more war torn way if that makes any sense. But then when we went back for dinner I realized the real glamour was on the second floor staircase! I felt like Anastasia returning to the place I was a princess before my monarchy was overthrown. My next favorite restaurant was Ivan Chef Justo, where I had the best seafood, these yummy fried potato balls and the best assortment of appetizers. Everything was fantastic and I would highly recommend it! We went a few other places but those were by far my favorites. 

Like I mentioned in a recent Instagram post, we had the very best time at this completely non-touristy, small nightclub, with the absolute best new Cuban music and the best Cuban people dancing with absolutely no hesitation, in the most beautiful way! I loved how small it was and it took me a good minute to realize that the television screen was playing the music videos that matched the actual club music, not some really hilarious jean commercial! I loved that I only heard one American song all night and everything the DJ played was legitimately produced in Cuba, by Cubans, as evidenced by the amazing music videos being played simultaneously. Everyone in the room, aside from myself and Arthur, were the most amazing dancers who seemed to have one shared goal; dancing the night away and genuinely having the best time. Wifi and smartphones are quite limited in Havana and I could tell because every young person there was so in the moment, genuinely there for dancing and meeting each other. It was so fun and I really hope all the people that night weren't too put off by my attempt to shake my hips at half their speed! The only problem is I have been searching and searching the internet and can't FIND the name of this establishment! I do, however, remember exactly where it was since we didn't walk very far to get there from our hotel or the other two spots we ventured to for a drink. I want to say the name sounded something like "Astoria" but that could also be way off! It was located right on Paseo de Martí, just north of Neptuno, I believe between the two small cross streets called Virtudes and Animas. So there, use your maps and find it the old fashioned way! This is the closest location off google maps I could find that appeared to be where we showed up for a fun night, so good luck everyone! 

Aside from the amazing nightclub with no certain name, we went to two other great spots I would highly recommend for a drink and some great live music. One was the bar in front of Hotel Inglaterra, where we sipped a bottle of champagne al fresco on a warm night and heard some wonderful salsa music. After that we ventured to Floridita, known primarily for it's history as Earnest Hemingway's favorite place for a cold cocktail and hence the signature Hemingway daiquiri, the perfect compliment to a warm Havana night. Apparently Hemingway spent a lot of quality time in Cuba and before purchasing his home, was a longtime resident at the Hotel Ambos MundosMy last recommendation for more than just a good drink, is the Tropicana show! Definitely a fun vibe and great entertainment for a couple or large group.